So I am here now. Looking back I understand that it was a gradual process; digging a hole that would eventually bury me. Life had lost meaning and recollecting myself has been quite a task.
Lessons I have learnt :
Love is a very beautiful feeling especially when it is true. Expounding on this will only make it lose meaning so I leave it at that.
Human beings are social beings. “Solitude is hazardous”. So my friend keeps telling me. I can conquer with him on that. We all need people to stand with us, celebrate with us and generally be there for us. They are like fragrance in our lives. Sometimes they may drive us crazy.. But that serves to remind us we are still living. None of us is self-sufficient. We need each other.
If you are not wanted there walk away. Sometimes walking away doesn’t mean you are weak.. It might mean you love yourself too much to allow yourself to be used. Some people only reach out to you when you have something they need. Apart from that you don’t matter to them. When you realise this ; run for your life. It’s better to be alone and accept it than have an illusion of security in people. They will eventually walk out on you leaving you devastated.
People Change. Expect that. Circumstances change. Don’t be shocked when that happens. As they say, change is the only inevitable thing.
